Cooking for Two: When only one of you has the allergy
May 24, 2008 – 11:54 pmA dinner with your spouse, close friend, or family is usually a very fun way to catch up or simply go over the day. Cooking that meal can also be very fun. Dinner date ideas are one of the oldest tricks in the book to making that special someone in your life that much closer to you.
However, with allergies, this can be a bit rough. You may have to severely limit your choices of meal, or even make two meals! You don’t want to spend your entire evening in the kitchen while you miss out watching Young Frankenstein (Have you had a movie date and not seen this yet? Well, do it.)
I have been living with my girlfriend for several months, and have been cooking many meals for us before that. I being the one with all the annoying allergies have to make a lot of compromises but it works out. Here’s a few things I learned when cooking for two, with one heaping bag of allergies on the side!
Many substitutes taste great and will work just as well for your meal.
In our house, I never buy Wheat pasta anymore. Rice pasta tastes great and Miranda does not mind it. Almond Milk is also very common in our baking needs and we have found works very well in comparison to regular milk. Of course, not everyone likes a substitute …
You can make two dishes, but only add a few minutes.
When you think of two dishes. You think of using two pans, two sheets in the oven, two pots. Ugh! Not allowed. Instead, look up recipes that include your allergy later in the meal. Example? Many soups have a cream base. When making tomato soup, I will complete my portion, put it in a seperate bowl for my consumption/storage, then I add milk to the remaining batch. I get my tomato soup, and everyone else gets their delicious creamy tomato soup!
Spice it up with a side dish, or an appetizer for your guest.
Sometimes, you will simply find it very hard to create what you want that will work for both of you. If you simply have to create a basic meal that confines to your allergies and you are not sure if your guest will enjoy it as much as you hope (Side note: Eating gluten or dairy free DOES NOT equal boring mundane foods! But we’re taking it to the extreme here) .. Then add a small appetizer or side to your meal. I generally keep a nice loaf handy and cook up some garlic bread as a side. I can’t have it, but I know my guest will be just a bit more full-filled!
Get both of you in that kitchen!
What kind of dinner date is one where both of you are not cooking? Both of you get in there and split it up. You could make your own meal, or you make hers while she makes yours (What better way to teach her about your allergies?) Have some fun, and hope that your kitchen isn’t a small one - Oh, it is? Well make the best of it because you’re a great guy like that!
That should help you get started. Number one thing is to be open with your spouse, family, and guests about your allergies and they will be more then understanding. Over time, you will find yourself getting better and better at creating fun and interesting dishes that both of you can enjoy!

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